Winning Ex Back - The First Date

The first date back together is a big step in winning ex back.   You have finally goth through all the hard feelings and emotions of the initial break up, and have finally got that first date back together.  You are intent on winning your ex back, but nervous like your very first date you had way back when.  Basically, your future realtionship together may be riding on how this date goes.  So make it count.  The following is a few ideas to make that date great and assist you in winning ex back.

•   Try something different. Shake things up. Winning ex back requires that you do something memorable. If money is an issue, it doesn't have to be super fancy. Be creative. A picnic at a scenic lake with a nice walk afterwards might be something totally unexpected and different. You might also try doing something that you had always talked about but never did while you were together. Whatever you do, make this date stand out from the rest.

• Inject some humor. A light conversation filled with jokes or witty comments keeps both of you at ease. Your easy going presence will be instrumental in winning ex back.

• Don't force the relationship. Take it slow. You do not have to get totally back together on the first date. If you were engaged, maybe just try dating for a while. If you try to force the relationship, it will drive your ex away and make them resent you, which is definitely not how to go about winning ex back.

• Look your absolute best. Dress appropriately for the activity planned, but dress your best. Make sure you are well groomed and hair cut if you are a guy, and have your hair done and make-up applied if you are a girl. You want them to be thinking about you after the date has ended.

• I would not suggest sleeping with your ex on the first date back. This is definitely not how to go about winning ex back. By sleeping with your ex on the first date back, you both risk having regrets the next day. This puts pressure on the relationship that doesn't need any more pressure than is already there. Take it slow. If you can renew the courtship process, that is the beginning in winning ex back.

I hope these suggestions will help you on your first date back. If you would like a step by step guide for how to get back with ex, click the link for more information. Be sure to view the videos on what you should not do if you are intent on winning ex back.

Lonnie Sallas
1/29/09

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