Please Help - I Still Love My Ex

If you are searching for help because you are saying to yourself “I Still Love My Ex”, then you have to search your soul and figure out where you want the relationship to go in the future. It is quite natural after a break up to still have feelings for your ex. After all, you were in love with each other and shared some special memories together. This closeness that you shared does not just disappear overnight. When you say to yourself “I Still Love My Ex”, what does that mean to you? Do you still want to get back together with your ex?

If you are saying “I still love my ex”, then there was definitely love there to begin with. This is a good thing because there will still be a fondness present and good memories from the relationship. But just because you still love your ex, doesn’t mean that you are destined, or that you should, get back together. Even if you could get your ex back, do you really want your ex back? Take some time and ponder the question. With some deep reflection on the relationship, you will be able to determine if you really should be together.

But if you still feel like you love your ex just due to a residual fondness from the relationship, and nothing more, then take things slow and just go with the flow. Let things happen naturally. You will either drift away from each other, or you will become good friends. Having a good friend of the opposite sex is something that is very hard to find. And sometimes, friends can become lovers again.

However, if by saying “I still love my ex”, you are saying that you want to get back together, then you’ve got some work to do. The first thing you must do is determine if your ex may still want to get back together with you. Don’t push the envelope though. Let things happen, and you will see by their actions what they are feeling inside.

If you were in a marriage that failed, you should definitely seek professional marriage counseling. Seek advice from someone who is trained to give relationship advice for your set of circumstances. With the help of a good counselor, you can rebuild your marriage into a stronger relationship than you had before. Both parties made mistakes to cause the relationship to falter. Don’t put blame on either party. You both need a fresh start and the guidance of someone that will make your marriage stronger.

If you are finding yourself saying “I still love my ex”, don’t panic. Take things slow and easy and let things run their course naturally at first, and then seek help to get things started down the right path again. Before long, you will be able to get your ex back.

Lonnie Sallas
3/6/09

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