How to Win Back Lost Love

Forgiveness is the Key

If you have recently broken up, you are probably still trying to get over the person and move on, or determine how to win back lost love. A break up is never easy, and it is the rare person who just quickly accepts the break up and moves on. This is probably a good time to reflect on your relationship and the way your ex treated you. Were they good to you? Were they good for you? Try to look at your relationship from a third party point of view. How would things be if indeed you did get your ex back? Your break up may not be such a bad idea. 

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Apologize

If you want to win back lost love, you must apologize if you were the one who did something to cause the situation.    Be sincere.    Only apologize if you are truly sorry, not just to win back lost love.    You may have said sorry several times in the past, but if your ex thought you were just saying it to save the relationship, then they may not have thought you really meant it.    If you have already broken up, then a sincere apology will be accepted since you have already broken up. 

Forgive

If your ex is the one who did something that they should apologize for, then you should just try to forgive them.  Don’t hold out expecting a sincere apology from them.  It doesn’t mean that you have to forget.  This is especially true if the break-up was because he cheated.  You should not allow your feelings to get trampled on easily.  Sometimes forgiveness is a difficult thing.  It may be a good idea to read a book or two on how to forgive someone.  This is a very important exercise to win back lost love. 

Even if you are able to win back lost love, past issues may arise months or years down the road.  You must be able to forgive the person so that you can move on to a healthy relationship with them.  If you cannot truly forgive them for what they did to cause the initial break up, chances are that the subject will come up again down the road, and a nasty break up will occur.  However, if you truly forgive your ex, there will not be any need to bring up the past.    

To win back love you also need to show them what they are missing.  Show your ex and the world the person that you used to be when you and your ex first got together.  They were attracted to you because of those qualities you exuded back then.  Why not exhibit those qualities again?  Even though you are hurting due to the break up, if you can show them why they fell in love with you in the first place, you can win back lost love.